“Mrs.
Fitzgerald doesn’t let her class celebrate St. Patrick’s Day.” I was in awe of the
fifth grade girl talking to me about her teacher.
“But why?” I
asked. I understood only that for some reason everybody must wear green on St.
Patrick’s Day. Like Halloween, Christmas, Valentine’s Day, Easter, and 4th
of July, I understood it to be an American thing. In India we had celebrated
days associated with the various religions that originated in the nation. I
didn’t remember any festival or holiday having dress codes. People wear
costumes on Halloween and everything seems to be orange and black. Red and pink
cover walls and people alike on Valentine’s Day. Pastel colors for Easter. Red,
white, and blue for United States’ Independence Day. And green on St. Patrick’s
Day.
The fifth
grader’s answer was simple, “Because she’s Irish.”
As a third
grader with limited English proficiency and budding knowledge of the world, I
asked, “What’s Irish?”
“Like you’re
Indian. She comes from Ireland, so she’s Irish. I’m Irish too.” With that, she
was gone. And I thought. Ireland must be like India, a place people leave and
move here. Indians travelled to England, France, Dubai, Saudi Arabia, Italy,
and Spain. I knew those were countries that offered more money and better jobs.
We had relatives and family acquaintances that had moved there. Though Indians
moved to all these countries, nobody outside of India celebrated Diwali, the festival
of lights or Holi, the season for color. I mused for days. St. Patrick’s Day
was coming and I had to decide whether I should wear green and why.
I began to
notice more people who looked Irish: everybody who had dirty blonde hair and
fair skin. I realized that many Americans were either British—we were learning
about the Colonies in Social Studies—or Irish. Because there were more British
immigrants, their holidays: Christmas, Valentine’s, Easter, Halloween all
travelled with them and became American celebration days. There were fewer
Irish so they got one holiday: St. Patrick’s Day.
I felt bad for
the Irish. Their smaller number meant they had claim to one day a year. I
realized how there were only one other Indian kid in my school and scattered
Indian communities throughout the area that we shopped and lived in. I wanted
an Indian holiday to be celebrated just like St. Patrick’s Day, so I decided to
wear green. I was wearing green to support the minorities because I knew somewhere
inside me that if we help someone, God will send others to help us as well.
I wore green
again in fourth grade. More Indian kids came to our school and I could see my
idea becoming a possible reality.
In fifth grade, I had Mrs. Fitzgerald as my teacher. She wore
ankle-length dresses in floral prints, with long, thin ties at her lower back
and rounded necklines; I imagined that this was how the Irish women dress. She said that was her culture—she would not
wear short dresses or revealing clothing.
Mrs. Fitzgerald called the class to attention before St.
Patrick’s Day, “I’m Irish and for me St. Patrick’s Day is not about
leprechauns, rainbows, and pots of gold. St. Patrick’s Day is a celebration of
Ireland’s patron saint and should be observed respectfully.” The class knew not
to pinch those not wearing green and to not advertise the leprechauns when
creating holiday craft projects. Though other teachers in the future would tell
us that they could trace their roots to Ireland, they were all American. Mrs.
Fitzgerald was Irish.
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